The Perfect Moment

I am beginning to open up in so many parts of my life and am realizing more and more how much we hold back from others who are close to us in our lives. I am one of the worst people for telling people how I feel because I don't want to give them the power to hurt me.

There are so many times in our lives that we wait for the "perfect moment" to say something to someone or do something that we know will change our lives. We wait for the right moment to tell someone that we love them, or that we want to spend the rest of our lives with them. We wait to tell people we care about them because once we do, that leaves us vulnerable. The only problem with waiting until the "perfect moment" is that sometimes the perfect moment never comes. And then we have spent all our time waiting for something that has never come.

The other thing problem with waiting for the perfect moment is that we can only see the imperfections in moments. There are no perfect moments in life, there are simply imperfect moments that we can make perfect in our lives. Instead of waiting for something that is perfect to come along, we can work to make the imperfect times in our lives more perfect. And that is so worth it. We can make things so more perfect when we are able to appreciate the perfection in the small moments in our lives.

We should not feel the need to hold back what we feel and what we want to do for the perfect moment. The only perfect moments in our life are the ones that we create. Waiting for something to happen in our lives is very pointless. If we want the perfect moment to say something or the perfect time to do something, then we have to create it. It is the doing of something special that makes the perfect moment and the perfect time, not the moment itself.

The power for the perfect moment is held within ourselves and we need to take control of some of the power we hold. When we realize that, the reasons that hold us back from being open with someone are gone. And then we have more power over ourselves and the emotions in our lives. That's when we really get to feel the "perfect moments."