Love

Love. That scary thing that comes after the problems of trying to find love. So many people whine about the trials and tribulations of looking for love at different ages and how hard it is to find love. The thing that they don't realize is that the hard part isn't finding love, but love itself.

When you are trying to find love, you may change who you are for short periods of time when you are looking to find love. The reality about finding love though, is that you have to be yourself. You only get to be not yourself for a short period of time before it truly becomes exhausting. When it does, you have to go back to being who you are. If you don't, then it really isn't love.

Love is the part when you have be able to ready to commit to someone. Committing to someone requires compromise, an ability to not always get your own way, a lot of patience and a lot of love. Loving someone is really the hardest part of finding love. When you find someone. That is the part that is really hard, even though no one mentions it.

The strange part is that no one ever mentions how the work is totally worth it.